How to have a Winning Online Dating Picture
The profile picture is the most important thing on a profile. A picture says 1000 words.
1, Men and women look for different things.
Women’s profiles do best if they look a bit sexual, so wearing clothes that suit her body and make her look sexy. However need to make sure still look intelligent and capable and not just a slut, or will attract men with the wrong intentions. Need a man who is prioritising having a partner they can have a life with, not just sex.
Men’s profiles do best if they look like they are a loving, affectionate person, who is intelligent and also an alpha male. The women wants a man that will look after her emotionally, care for and protect her, as he loves her.
2, The picture should show clearly you
The pictures should show the person and not also show their friends and the surroundings. Pictures taken on holiday with the tourist site in the background, are also less showing you. The product is you and that is what people are looking for. Pictures that show your face and body as what the picture is about do best.
Experienced online daters know from experience on dates, if a person’s body part is hidden on a picture, it is probably for good reason. For example if someone is fatter, they may be hidden behind the side of a chair.
3, Be happy and relaxed
Things like stress, angst, resentment, self consciousnes and so on are not attractive. The problem is that these things appear when a person is having their picture taken.
The best solutions is to have the picture taken in a place and if needed with people you are relaxed with. Take your time and not rush it can always do again later.
Take loads of pictures at different times so you can go through them and choose which are best.
Relax your muscles so you do not look stressed and tense.
Open body language
Most of all smile and give out love and affection.
Posture is a big deal, less attractive people can look amazing with great posture.
Really attractive people can look terrible with bad posture.
To look great, stand or sit vertically straight, almost like there is a string pulling your head up.
Women look best when they are leaning slightly backwards, with their bottoms pointing slightly out, this is that is a sexual thing.
Men look best when they are leaning slightly forward as that is a forceful, masculine posture.
5, Who are you trying to attract.
Dating is also a social thing and people like to be with people who are the same as themselves.
Different types of people wear and behave in different ways, work out what kind of person wants to be attracted to you.
Intellectual, arty, educated, manual labourer, extrovert, introvert, party animal, person who likes peace and quiet and so on.
If you are in front of a tourist site in the city you are in, such as in London you are standing in front of Tower Bridge. Locals will know that you’re a tourist as a local person would not normally do that is they are involved in all the all parts of the city as well. Being seen as a transient tourist, does not help a person who would like a long term relationship with locals.
The main answer is to be yourself as then you will attract a person with the same values as you, do the relationship can work.