How to have winning online profile text
Keep it short
Intelligent people tend to write loads of text, but most people do not want to read all this.
The longer the text, the more work it is to read and so most readers are put off.
The best text is short and really gets to the bottom of things.
Text that does the best is upbeat and positive, no one wants to be with the depressed person at a party.
Text that talks about what the person hates, wants, or does not want is always a turn off. It should be about giving, not taking.
It does not stop such people from contacting you and puts off everyone else off as well. Best to be positive and have everyone contact you, then not write back to those of no interest.
It is a bit like how credit card companies advertise their great credit cards by saying how good they are. They do not talk about how some people may not get approved, as that makes it a more negative experience even for the applicants they want. They reject people once they receive their application.
Women with text that is fun and flirty do best.
Men with text that is caring, affectionate, intelligent and is entertains the woman does best.
The main thing is to write as you would speak to your date, so it is personal and real. Anything else comes off as fake.
Who are you trying to attract?
This is not just what you say but how you write it.
Full, eloquent with advanced grammar writing will attract an intellectual partner.
Funky, cool, writing with shortened phrasing will attract a more casual person.
Other factors like if your writing is thoughtful, fun, showing you are a moral person or selfish.
The main answer is to be yourself as then you will attract a person with the same values as you, do the relationship can work.
Be real and you
The worst thing is to just copy other generic things that other people have written. They are boring, especially as people will have read them so much. Also it does not give any indication of what you are like, except that maybe you are a bit boring and bland too.
This may seem hard, but you are naturally a person and so can write as the natural person you are. Then it will all come out.
By writing for real, putting what you would say to a friend you are having an honest personal conversation with, there is something for someone to engage with.
It needs to be personal.
For example a good thing for a man to write would be ‘I am looking for a lady I can fall in love with. Who is lovely as a person so that I am go glad to be with her and intelligent so I can respect and admire her. I would love to care and look after cuddle on a cold winters night and just be with. ‘
It is personal and beautiful. This may seem different, but as a result the person will know it is real and that is why it is proven to work.
For a women something like ‘I love to be with a man, just be with him and be a good partner. I hope to love and care for him so he feels looked after and loved.’
It is talking about your feelings and how you really like to be.
Write to serve the other person
The reader is interested in what they get, they are not wanting to be constantly giving to a person who just takes.
We have found it works best if you write about what you give.
If a person talks about what they want to have and their gripes. That is about taking, rather than giving, which is less attractive.
Some people attempt to say what they want to have, so that the right people apply. However we find it does not put off the people they do not want, as they just try their luck or have not read it. The people who the person wants to contact then does not contact them, as they are put off by the list of demands .
An example is a credit card advert. It says how wonderful the credit card is, not that most people are turned down for it and so will not get it. The company attracts the customers first and then rejects them if they are not suitable.